Hamamat Montia shares story of how her refusal to marry a “big fish” she caught ended her in court

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Model and entrepreneur, Hamamat Montia has shared her story of how she landed a “big” fish at age 20 when she used to be a “slay queen”.

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According to the mother of two, after searching for the next “big man” to milk dry, she finally landed herself a very rich white man who was ready to give her everything she wanted.

However, the white man wanted to marry her, something she was not ready for at the time.

Hamamat stated that her refusal to marry the said white man, landed her in court because the man wanted her to pay back everything he had spent on her.

Hamamat shared her story as a lesson for others.

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“Happy Wednesday #KingsandQueens 
I used to be a “slay queen” when I was much younger and clueless. 
Don’t get me wrong being a slay queen was so much fun I had many amazing experiences & learnt countless important lessons(and not all slay queens “sleep around “ some are just very smart at keeping men on the hunt for long ) but I soon realized it was all a trap and wasn’t the kind of life I wanted to live . 
How will you know if you don’t try ? Huh!… and after I became a beauty Queen at 18 , I really just wanted to chill .
Name the country – I have been there 
Name the fashion – I wore it 
Name the lifestyle – I have tried it 
In fact my summer car choices was between a Ferrari & a Rolls Royce but this also taught me a valuable lesson.
As a slay Queen – your most important goal is to catch a “big fish “ one that will take care of all your wants , needs & dreams . 
So I caught a big fish @20 but I soon learnt a life changing lesson . :
Now I had this big fish and everyone was telling me to marry him and inherit it all – it was hard because I didn’t even know what love was and my instincts just won’t allow me to sleep at night. :
I just couldn’t put myself in the box of “African girl marrying white man for money” (because that is what everyone thought at that time ) . 
I ended the relationship suddenly when I realized money alone wasn’t my goal in life but How dare you say no to a “big fish” after you went ring shopping together and met the parents and met the friends and met everyone . 
So we ended up in court because he wanted something in return- I mean how do you think big fish get Big ? Over 10years and there is still a picture of us on (my) wiki – ?
This phase in my life thought me many valuable lessons. 
Lessons that has helped transform my life for the better some of such lessons are – 
The power of #money
The power of #intuition & 
The power of #white love
I am not racist 
I am not sexist
I am not what you think I am but rather a woman who knows who she is and is not afraid to try.”

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Happy Wednesday #KingsandQueens : : : I used to be a “slay queen” when I was much younger and clueless. Don’t get me wrong being a slay queen was so much fun I had many amazing experiences & learnt countless important lessons(and not all slay queens “sleep around “ some are just very smart at keeping men on the hunt for long ) but I soon realized it was all a trap and wasn’t the kind of life I wanted to live . How will you know if you don’t try ? Huh!… and after I became a beauty Queen at 18 , I really just wanted to chill . : : Name the country – I have been there Name the fashion – I wore it Name the lifestyle – I have tried it In fact my summer car choices was between a Ferrari & a Rolls Royce but this also taught me a valuable lesson. : As a slay Queen – your most important goal is to catch a “big fish “ one that will take care of all your wants , needs & dreams . So I caught a big fish @20 but I soon learnt a life changing lesson . : Now I had this big fish and everyone was telling me to marry him and inherit it all – it was hard because I didn’t even know what love was and my instincts just won’t allow me to sleep at night. : I just couldn’t put myself in the box of “African girl marrying white man for money” (because that is what everyone thought at that time ) . I ended the relationship suddenly when I realized money alone wasn’t my goal in life but How dare you say no to a “big fish” after you went ring shopping together and met the parents and met the friends and met everyone . So we ended up in court because he wanted something in return- I mean how do you think big fish get Big ? Over 10years and there is still a picture of us on (my) wiki – ? : This phase in my life thought me many valuable lessons. Lessons that has helped transform my life for the better some of such lessons are – The power of #money The power of #intuition & The power of #white love : : I am not racist I am not sexist I am not what you think I am but rather a woman who knows who she is and is not afraid to try : : Comment #333 to continue 3 more days to my birthday : Click Hamamat.com to shop and win #moringaoil @hamamatafricanbeauty

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